Left out or a new direction? Coping with a new incumbent

When your vacancy eventually ends, the problems won’t necessarily all go away. Or they may be replaced by new ones. Timothy Lee encourages us to be flexible in our thinking. A new incumbent arrives – it’s a particularly difficult time for Readers or Lay Ministers. The new incumbent has so much to think about. The Reader’s needs may not seem all that important in the grand scheme of things. Often she or he has been virtually carrying the church in the vacancy. Suddenly we feel sidelined, and no-one seems to have noticed. It might look a bit like this.

Difficult adjustments

Clive has been a Reader for twenty years at St John’s, now licenced as Lay Minister. His preaching is respected. After a long vacancy, the parish now has a new young incumbent, Reverend Becca. Throughout the vacancy Clive and the other LLM, Sue, kept services going at St John’s, and found priests for eucharistic services. Clive looked after the family services. Sue took care of most of the others in the church as well as services in the local care home. Now Becca has arrived, she has taken the lion’s share of preaching. While Sue is content to work with the older people, Clive has found himself almost left out of the rota, preaching mainly at evensong. Then there is St Jude’s. St Jude’s is a traditional country church that the bishop asked Revd Becca to take on. Apparently they have not had a vicar for a long time and, the word is, they are ‘a bit of a handful’. Sue is alright about going there but Clive feels his place is at the main services at St John’s, as he is well known there. He is annoyed that Becca has barely mentioned his hard work in the vacancy, and she doesn’t seem interested in his ministry now. He doesn’t think she really understands the way they do things at St John’s. She seems really slow to get going as well. He has been talking to people about her and several seem to share his concern.

From another viewpoint

Let us take a look at the situation from Revd Becca’s perspective. She had a wonderful time as a curate, and couldn’t wait to get her own parish. St John’s shows great promise for family services – numbers have grown since she arrived. Apart from Clive, most of the leadership team are very supportive of her. Her old incumbent told her just to listen and observe for the first six months, and try to really understand things before making any big changes. The bishop asked her to take on St Jude’s because of a reorganisation. Apparently there was a problem with their previous vicar – many people there seem still to be very hurt by what happened. St Jude’s seems to demand a lot of her time and prayers. But St John’s is the town church with many young families, so it will have to take priority. After four months, Becca feels she is only just beginning to understand the scale of task confronting her. It is so very different from being a curate. But she has just started on the diocesan incumbency training course, and she now has a peer group of other new incumbents to share ideas with. She has two Lay Ministers. Sue is a dream, so helpful, she has been down to St Jude’s, bringing love and calm. What a blessing. Clive … well – he only wants to preach at St John’s. He really seems to have a high opinion of his own preaching – but his gifts are really not with young families. He would probably be fine at St Jude’s. But he seems contemptuous of their faith and tradition, and refuses to go. Apparently he is stirring up trouble with a few of his friends. We seem to be having problems all round! So how might things have been different?

Imagine if …

What if when Revd Becca arrived, Clive had noticed her style was different – how, he wonders, does she ‘tick’? We can understand more about personalities through Myers Briggs, the Enneagram or the Insights colours:

  • ‘Fiery Red’ people are positive, assertive, decisive, deal quickly with the present situation.
  • ‘Sunshine Yellow’ – are creative, social, expressive and have masses of ideas.
  • ‘Earth Green’ – are calming, sharing, patient, focus on caring and growing relationships.
  • ‘Cool Blue’ – are cautious, analytical, use logic, plan things carefully, and think before they act.

You can view more on Insights colours on YouTube. But we have to understand ourselves first. How well do you know yourself? How do others see you? For by the grace given to me I say to every one among you not to think of himself more highly than he ought to think, but to think with sober judgement, each according to the measure of faith that God has assigned. (Romans 12: 3). Becca is clearly different from the last incumbent. Clive decides to pray for her. He begins to notice her strengths, her gifts. She is attracting new families to the family service. Her preaching is actually not bad. She seems to know what she is doing. He arranges a meeting with her. He talks about the vacancy and his working agreement, and what he likes doing best. She listens patiently. She explains her priorities – and about St Jude’s. That is quite an eye opener for Clive. Sensing the need, he offers to go and preach there. When he goes there, he is warmly welcomed – to his great surprise – and his sermon goes down well. After a few weeks of this he begins to realise they do indeed have a faith, perhaps more often expressed in deeds rather than words. He gets a book on rural ministry and starts to understand them a bit more. Clive and Becca work together on a plan to restore confidence at St Jude’s. Becca really appreciates his contribution; at the same time Clive is sensing a new direction in his ministry.

  • Let me hear in the morning of your steadfast love, for in you I trust.
  • Make me know the way I should go, for to you I lift up my soul. (Psalm 143: 8).

A new incumbent can bring huge challenges to Readers and LLMs. Our needs may not be top priority in the great scheme of things, but our ministry and gifts are valued more than we may realise. The first need for Readers and LLMs in this is prayer, openness and positive engagement – not moping on the sidelines. At such times we stand at a crossroads in our personal journey: where is God calling us now? Timothy Lee is an LLM (Reader) in Chelmsford Diocese.

What a lay-led church might look like

Alan Stanley puts forward a vision for the future.

There are, of course, many models for lay-led churches. The question for Anglicans and others with either episcopal or an equivalent ecclesiology is how to develop a lay led church without resorting to a congregational model.

As we mature, we add experience to the original ‘deposit of faith’ and it changes us – changes how we think, speak, act and pray. We learn that faithfulness does not involve circling the waggons to defend our position against attack, but willingness to step out ‘beyond’, following the God who goes before us.1

Let us take an imaginary parish church, All Saints, which is without an incumbent.

A confident congregation

The diocese is one with a wealth of lay training which All Saints has benefited from over many years. It has a couple of people who are confident to lead a home study group, an informal pastoral care group which also looks after bereaved people, and a reasonably resourced but small group of people who love working with children and young people. A few people from All Saints have attended diocesan courses which have led to them being authorised as pastoral assistant, worship leader and occasional preacher, and there is in place one Licenced Lay Minister and one in training.

The diocese has also provided training for churchwardens, PCC secretaries, intercessors and church treasurers, all of which the various post holders have attended. Since the last incumbent left, the churchwardens have held monthly meetings with the other PCC officers, the LLM, children and youth leader and the pastoral assistant. This group has provided leadership on day-to-day matters with the more strategic decisions being discussed by the PCC. The churchwardens have been able to consult the area dean and the archdeacon for matters which are either beyond their remit or on which they need guidance. Services of Holy Communion, baptism and marriage have been arranged with local or diocesan clergy through a contact list provided by the diocese. Funerals have mostly been taken by the LLM.

The All Saints’ congregation is used to having a service of Holy Communion on two Sundays each month, their previous incumbent being shared with another parish. With the support of the lay worship leader, occasional preacher, the All Age Worship team and the LLM, this pattern of needing a visiting priest to take Communion services, along with baptisms and weddings, was sustainable. The congregation was understanding if visiting clergy could not be found for two Sundays a month and were happy to drop to one Communion a month when necessary. Permission has just been granted for the LLM to take a Public Worship with Communion by Extension service when a priest cannot be found.

The work of the pastoral visitors continues, and the pastoral assistant convenes regular support meetings, as do the children and youth team leader. The worship leader and occasional preacher have been meeting for some time as a small peer support group convened by the LLM, and the home study group leaders join the leadership group once a term to discuss the direction the group should take.

The diocese runs a Leading Your Church into Growth course, and the archdeacon has invited All Saints to send two members to the next one. Two volunteers have been found, and the church is gradually adopting their suggestions.

All Saints has not ended up in the happy position of being able to sustain its own life by chance. Its previous incumbent knew that one day she would leave, and that cuts in diocesan budgets meant she would probably not be replaced by an equivalent minister, so she had planned and worked for the time when the church would have to be self-sufficient.

What is missing from the life of All Saints? It has a connection with the wider Church through the area dean, archdeacon, and visiting clergy. It is nourished by episcopal ministry through the support provided by the diocese for its wide variety of ministries. Its ministry is episcopally controlled. This is primarily through the churchwardens, who are officers of the bishop. The bishop’s oversight is strengthened in depth through episcopal authorisation of the pastoral assistant, worship leader and occasional preacher and the licensing of its LLM. The saints are in effect equipped for their ministry by the work of the bishop through the diocesan training team, so are truly an episcopally-led church, which is fulfilling the injunction in Ephesians (4: 12–13).

Challenges

However, All Saints does face a number of challenges. The duties and responsibilities of the churchwardens are enshrined in law and are very wide ranging (one diocese lists eighty-three of them in its guidance to wardens!)2 and it is not clear that anyone will be willing to take on the load when the current wardens retire. The PCC had been hoping to install screens so that printed service material could be reduced, and to replace the pews with chairs so that the nave could be used for community activities as well as worship. However, the difficult and lengthy process to get diocesan approval for these changes, plus the potentially heavy legal consequences if the church does not follow the procedure accurately, has placed something of a dampener on these ambitions.

One of the biggest challenges that the PCC faces is in moving from a hierarchical pattern of leadership to a flat and collaborative one. Everything that it has experienced so far in the church has been predicated on the pyramid model, including the previous incumbent’s work to make the church self-sustaining. One of the churchwardens is an entrepreneur who has successfully founded and grown a number of small businesses using a flat management model. This, she found, really helped everyone in the business to feel deeply involved and confident to work passionately and with minimum supervision in their own particular area. She is acutely aware that some of the most successful companies like Amazon and Google have this sort of flat management system. She would like to introduce this model to the life of the church but feels frustrated at the constant clashing with the pyramid model where every initiative has to be sent up the line for approval. This recently came to a head in discussion with the diocese about the screens, pews and chairs, when the overwhelming sense was that some remote level in the pyramid would need to make decisions which, in her experience, should be made at local level.

She is aware that in her many years in the commercial world, management and leadership patterns have changed over time. When she ran her first business, she was the boss, and everyone did what she decided. The lessons she learnt from the bursting of the dot.com bubble in the mid 1990s totally changed her subsequent leadership style. She moved her business from what she now thinks of as a dead-handed majestic monolith into small, nimble units that could respond rapidly to changing opportunities. She abandoned the old organisational charts and replaced them with interaction charts. Most of the more successful companies that she did business with had also recognised the many disadvantages of the pyramid structure. This made working with others much more creative.

The contrast between her working environment, where good communication, making friends not enemies, innovation and reinventing the way people work together produced team commitment and dedication, and how as a churchwarden she is required to relate to the diocese and the parish is huge. She will not be disappointed when her term of office ends.

Afterword

All Saints has been operating (in my dreams) as a lay-led church for five years now. The leadership team consists of two wardens who between them keep an eye on fabric and finance, a member for each of the children and youth teams, the pastoral visiting and worship leader’s teams and the Reverend Sue. Sue is a self-supporting minister who, in return for free housing, gives the equivalent of two days plus two Sundays a month to the parish. Sue has been given a brief by the whole team to spend time praying and being available for people. She has been asked to keep her parish diary as light as possible.

Sue has found that she is often approached by people from both the congregation and the community for advice and prayer. Numbers in the fellowship groups and Sunday services have been gradually rising. The leadership team believes that growth through relationships has happened as a direct result of the leadership, and through it the whole church, being relational not hierarchical. The most important incremental decision facing the leadership team now is how to refresh its membership without losing the trust that has developed between them.

The fundamental question which All Saints seems to have answered in a pragmatic way, is ‘Is the church defined by her ordained ministry or the ordained ministry defined by the church?’ Vatican II points us to the latter by designating ministry as service. The Roman Catholic theologian Peter Neuner pithily points out the implications of this:

A service can be defined only in the light of that which it has to serve, for the sake of which it is there. That means that the ministry is defined in terms of the church, and not the church in terms of the ministry.3

All Saints has defined the ministry of leadership in terms of its whole community, not in terms of one ordained person. Will the Church of England ever have the courage to follow the aptly named All Saints?

Alan Stanley is an LLM in the Elmete Trinity Benefice, Leeds Diocese. He is also a part-time prison chaplain.

References

  1. J P Williams, J P, Seeking the God Beyond: A Beginner’s Guide to Christian Apophatic Spirituality. London: SCM Press, 2018, p.42.
  2. Lichfield, accessed at: https://ecclawsoc.org.uk/wp-content/uploads/2017/10/Churchwardens-Induction-Handbook-2017.docx
  3. Neuner, P, ‘Ministry in the Church: changing identity’. In: Kerkhofs, J (ed) Europe Without Priests? London: SCM Press, 1995, p.130.

Why the church needs to be lay led

We all know that churches can be led by lay people – and in vacancies, for example, often are. Alan Stanley believes this is a good thing

My own semi-rural benefice of three churches has been in a vacancy for one year, and an appointment is unlikely for another twelve months. During that time, each of the churches has come to life under the humble, often hesitating and faltering, but shared and compassionate leadership of its own lay people. Some of these emerging lay leaders hold official positions, some do not, but all are working together to lead our churches out of Covid and into the next stage of God’s plan for us.

In looking at some of the theology and ecclesiology behind this lay led period, I have been amazed how so much has pointed to the conclusion that not only can churches be led by their lay people, but that they should be. Indeed, perhaps they actually need to be. Working from the New Testament through to today, I hope to set out some key reasons why I have arrived at that conclusion.

The New Testament picture is of a charismatic church gradually delineating different ministries but with no separation between the value of each. In fact, there is no evidence that ministries were tied to one person for all time. It is likely that the general oversight of the Christian community in the early centuries rested on the owner of the home in which the church met. When we look at the New Testament from its own perspective, rather than from our own, we find, as Sullivan says, ‘a variety of forms of leadership that developed according to the needs of the early church’.1 If we are to be true to the New Testament witness then, we too must look for a variety of forms of leadership that develop according to the needs of the twenty-first century church.
By the time of the Shepherd of Hermas (around 140)2 we encounter the phrase ‘the presbyters who are head of the community’. We must not make the assumption that these presbyters, or elders, were ‘ordained’ in the way we understand the word today. We must take care to note well Macy’s words looking at contemporary questions surrounding ordination:
Ordination in ancient document(s) was not the same concept that the modern question implies.3
Perhaps all we can glean from the New Testament is that the leadership of the early Christian communities was shared and changed as the communities themselves changed.
That brings us to the first thousand years of Christian history. In a compelling argument Macy helps us understand that ‘ordination’ was entry into one of the many offices needed to give the Christian community the order and missionary zeal that St Paul had called for in 1 Corinthians 14.
Macy summarises his argument thus:
Ordination had a far different meaning for the first half of Christian history than it would come to have in the twelfth and thirteenth centuries.3
In a very telling comment on the development of ministries in the first half of Christian history, the Roman Catholic theologian Schmidt writes that ‘all theologies of the ministry, however profound, are the consequences of a historical development in church structure’.4 From this he concludes that ‘the church has very great freedom over the content of its structures’.
This brings us to the dawn of that structure which is the parish system in England. First, we need to acknowledge that the parish church system owes its origins to lay people. The private churches of the local landowner were eventually opened up to all his tenants and became the church for the parish. Moorman tell us that ‘The village priest was therefore very much his lord’s “man” and subject to his authority and jurisdiction’.5 The priests themselves were local men, chosen for the work by the landowner, with only rudimentary education, and a bishop’s licence. Their role was to ensure public worship, engage in some simple teaching and carry out pastoral duties, all under the day-to-day direction of their lay benefactor. It was only with the development of sacramental theology in the twelfth and thirteenth centuries that a class of priests began to emerge who did not have their roots in their own local community, the so-called Mass Priests.
This local attachment was very slow to die out. Adrian Hastings writes about one James Hastings who, when he became Rector of Martly in 1920, could trace a family line of rectors through his father and grandfather back to 1791.6 The early rural parish clergy had no training as understood today and were following in the pattern of being local men, eventually also being Oxford or Cambridge educated. They were still ordained simply to lead worship and give pastoral care and instruction. Hastings comments: ‘This tradition of a laicised clergy went hand in hand with that of a church-minded laity, the “ecclesiastical layman”’. He continues: ‘A national church was, in all sorts of ways, a lay controlled Church, from parliament to the most local patronage’.6
When then did the Church of England cease to be a ‘lay controlled Church’? We could argue that the advent of structures which were designed to increase lay involvement in the Church of England may have in fact had the opposite effect.
In 1919, the bishops wanted the church to have more autonomy from Parliament. One consequence of that, whether intended or not, was to set in law the relationship between the incumbent and the people of the parish. The whole system of synodical government in the Church of England, and its equivalent in many other historic churches, has been designed to give lay people a voice in church affairs. Synods, whether national, regional, or local, may on occasion vote by Houses (bishops, clergy and lay), with a majority in all of the three sometimes required for a decision to be made. However, at the smallest and most local level, the Parochial Church Council, the incumbent is only required to consult with the lay people. The ideal is that all should work together, but this is a one-sided working together when the incumbent can act without the agreement of the lay people and remain, in the official words ‘the head’. The care of the people in the parish (the ‘cure of souls’) is shared by the bishop with the incumbent but not with the local lay people.
I am reminded of a quote from Cardinal John Henry Newman to the effect that the clergy would look pretty silly without the laity. The fact remains however that a reform which was intended to increase lay leadership ham-strung it at parish level from the start.
Anyone doubting that the laity have been disenfranchised by synodical government only needs to glance at the Guidance the House of Bishops issued during the pandemic:
Who makes the decision on what happens in church settings and at events held in church buildings?
The responsibility for making decisions about how to proceed lies with the incumbent.
This applies to acts of worship, to events run by the PCC or church community, and to decisions on whether to hire out spaces or allow other events to proceed. Incumbents should feel empowered to make locally appropriate decisions … 7
There is no mention of the responsibility lying with the PCC, or even of the churchwardens and incumbent acting together. The implication is clear.
All this is not simply an academic exercise. This top-down leadership model has seriously inhibited the mission activity of many churches, as the slowness to rebuild congregation numbers to pre-pandemic levels shows all too clearly.
This stands in contrast to some of the small and medium sized enterprises and large multinational companies which weathered the pandemic much more successfully than the church. In these organisations even the most authoritative founders and leaders share their decision making with others, though not necessarily those in the hierarchy chart.
Writing in 1981 (hence the use of masculine language), the Roman Catholic theologian Edward Schillebeeckx said: ‘This “community of God” is a brotherhood in which the power structures prevailing in the world are broken down (Matt. 20.25f.; Luke 22.25; Mark 10 42f.): all are equal.’8 It appears that the hierarchy of the Church of England does not follow Schillebeeckx’s thinking.

In contrast, Jürgen Moltmann (a theologian from the Reformed tradition) provides a clear expression in his The Trinity and the Kingdom of God of how an understanding of the Trinity should influence the way local churches are led.9 Moltmann argues that the Holy Trinity forms its own unity by the three persons loving each other, interacting with each other and sustaining each other in a community of equals. This, for Moltmann, is the exemplar of all true human communities, starting with the church. There is no room for monarchy in leadership; the only way is to follow the example of the Trinity and see leadership as community.
The hierarchical structure of the Church of England does not appear to follow this thinking. Perhaps now the time has arrived for it to engage in some ‘ecclesial restructuring’, to use a phrase coined by Cardinal Yves Congar. It will be a challenging process to go through, as was the process to ordain women, but no less rewarding. Kenneth Hylson-Smith outlines the challenge to clergy that enabling true lay leadership brings:
As part of the process, clergy and ministers all too typically appear to be over-cautious in sharing true leadership with the lay people ….. such apprehension is fully understandable. There are, of course, real risks in any devolution of power and authority. But the extent to which restraint or fear overcomes boldness is … highly detrimental to the work of the churches 10 (my emphasis).

A second article, to appear in the Summer 2023 issue of this magazine, will look at what a permanently lay-led church could look like in practice.

Alan Stanley is an LLM in the Elmete Trinity Benefice, Diocese of Leeds, and a part-time prison chaplain.

References
1 Sullivan, F A, From Apostles to Bishops: The Development of the Episcopacy in the Early Church. New Jersey: Newman Press, 2001: p.99.
2 See https://www.oxfordbibliographies.com/view/document/obo-9780195393361/obo-9780195393361-0230.xml
3 Macy, G, The Hidden History of Women’s Ordination, Female Clergy in the Medieval West. Oxford: Oxford University Press, 2008: p.15.
4 Schmidt, P, ‘Ministries in the New Testament and the Early Church’. In Kerkhovs, J (ed) Europe without Priests? London: SCM, 1995: p.84.
5 Moorman, J R H, A History of the Church of England. London: A&C Black, 1980: p.28.
6 Hastings, A, A History of English Christianity 1920–1985. London: Collins, 1986: p.69.
7 House of Bishops Guidance issued 9th December 2021.
8 Schillebeeckx, E, Ministry. Leadership in the Community of Jesus Christ. New York: Crossroad, 1981: p.34.
9 Moltmann, J, The Trinity and the Kingdom of God. Minneapolis: Fortress Press, 1980.
10 Hylson-Smith, K, The Laity in Christian History and Today. London: SPCK, 2008: p.136.

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